YMonday, July 09, 2007
affection..
someone shared this story with me some time ago and i think it's appropriate to blog it, especially in today's context where almost everything seems so superficial..
what exactly do you want? i'm in a dilemma! can't you just be blunt and straight- forward with me? i need the answer but you are not contributing! i need your affection but you are not willing! i need your assurance but you are not showing!
perhaps all was my fault.. perhaps i should not even get close to you in the first place.. now, you blame me..
everything was fine then.. you said not to bother about what the rest commented and even encouraged me to stand firm on my view.. you have taught me countless life principles and values which i will always remember.. those days, we never fail to meet each other's needs.. but what is happening to us now?
i really wish to break off all ties with you! but i'm too emotional and value you too much to do so.. i can't hurt myself anymore..
upon learning about this story, i felt it so true in our society.. ain't we all constantly finding love somewhere, putting our best efforts to build, maintain and strengthen these relationships? true love is not what you can get out of the relationship but how much one can put into and sacrifice for the relationship, regardless of whatever reward he or she might receive.. love can't be measured.. one can never say who love who more..
cherish while you still can..
only time can heal the broken- hearted..
-superstar matt-
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